Saturday when I took them over the soup I'd promised, I noticed the vent hood of her stove had black scorch marks across the front that wouldn't come off when I tried to wipe it down with cleanser. "What happened here?" I asked.
Vent hood scorch marks |
I returned to the issue of the scorch marks and asked her again what happened. She'd turned away from the frying pan (with it on High) while looking in the fridge. A huge fire had engulfed the ground meat while she wasn't looking. I was speechless for about two minutes while I sat and tried to think of what to say. This is my Mother, and yet I'm the one who's always lecturing. Finally I found the words.
"I'm just glad you are both okay," I told her. "Things could have been much worse," I said trying to keep the fear out of my voice.
The vent hood in the background |
With Louise in a wheelchair and Mom on a walker, it would take them too long to get out of the house if things had gotten worse; the stuff of nightmares. Just the week before, we'd had a major fire two blocks away which burned through the night. Last night, a special report on emergency preparedness in case of fire aired on the news and I thought about the Ladies across the street as I do often when I can't sleep.
Hello Peg. Your Mom used up a miracle here. Thank goodness she had one to spare. House fires are such a terrible event. Yes, indeed quick thinking on her part. I hope you have caught your breath by now. It is OK to lecture, when needed.
ReplyDeleteYou're right about the miracle, Mck. Yes, thank goodness. She's been quite lucky over the years as if Angels are watching over her. There was that time the tornado split her home into two halves while she slept on the couch right under the middle. She said later, "When I woke up, I could see the sky through the roof." Two of the neighboring homes were totalled and one was lifted up off the foundation and set back down. That was truly a miracle, too.
DeleteI try to keep the lecturing to a minimum. It is tough. It reminds me of myself as a teenager...In one ear and out the other. Oh boy. Paybacks.