Wednesday, October 30, 2024

Bain Honaker House in Farmersville Texas - Historic Houses



Nestled into a quiet rural street east of the Farmersville square, the Bain Honaker house is a reminder of the struggles of daily living in the 1800s. Constructed just after the Civil War, its builder and first owner, Anna Melissa Bain, was the widow of John Alexander Bain, 1823 - 1862. She was a woman of vision who with keen foresight, bought nearly seven acres in a small town fifty miles northeast of Dallas.

Inside the house there's a collection of items from workers, gun owners, revolutionaries, widows, orphans, musical instruments and lasting architectural design. Visitors can browse through antique books, old photos, vintage clothing, parlor-style furniture, and the remnants of lives well-lived.

Decorated in period-correct wallpaper, the interior is warmed by a shared fireplace in the wall between the parlor and the sitting room. 

"Mid-nineteenth-century homes included a formal parlor, sometimes described by social historians as a sacred space, where weddings, funerals, and other public events were held."

At times, it might hold the body of the deceased on display for visitation by friends and relatives prior to the funeral. The parlor was likely the most expensively furnished and elegant room in the entire house.

"The parlor furniture was made of richer materials and included the piano for entertaining guests. The cozier sitting room was used by the family for reading and sewing."2

A ceramic and enamel container held excess ashes from the hearth. As the fire was the primary source of heat, it would need to be emptied on a regular basis. 

"A family would gather in the sitting room in the evening, drawing close together to share the light of an oil or kerosene lamp.

Reading was a popular activity during which the family was likely to listen to someone reading aloud. Typically, the man of the house would read aloud, while women engaged in some form of sewing or handwork."

A writing desk and a comfortable chair were highly valued items in a sitting room.

Anna Hicks Bain, born in 1834, was eleven years younger than her husband, John Alexander Bain, who passed away in November 1862. A widow at twenty-eight years old, she raised five daughters in the house following his death. She smartly supplemented her income by dividing the 6.7 acres into smaller plots which became commercial properties and by taking in boarders in the spare rooms upstairs.

This room offered entry to the house through the back doors, possibly used as the servant's entrance, or to allow boarders a private access to the stairs. It served as a mud room in inclement weather to store wet boots and outer garments or in summer as a place to cool off. Off the screened porch is a brick path leading to the outhouse and the fresh-water well.

The porch allowed access to the informal dining area, possibly an eat-in kitchen where food was prepared. Cold food was stored in the wooden ice box in the corner. A sign would be put in the window to let the ice man know what size block to bring in from his truck.

Many of the daily chores revolved around cooking, baking, cleaning, washing, mending, raising chickens, planting a garden, gathering the harvest. In the absence of modern appliances, most work was done by hand. Sundays were a day of rest and worship.

When the Bain-Honaker house was built in 1865, it was a time of national unrest with the war between the states just winding down. Supplies were scarce, tensions were high and many wounded men were returning home after battling neighbors and brothers over issues of States' Rights versus Federal Authority, Westward expansion and slavery. The years 1860 - 1864 marked some of our nation's most difficult times, certainly a difficult time to lose a husband and raise five children alone.

Music played a large role in daily life in the absence of telephones, television or radio. Books and reading, singing, sewing and hand crafts kept idle hands busy.

Anna Bain's daughters, Mary and Catherine (Cassia) married brothers Henry Honaker and Andrew Honaker. Cassia lived in the house until her death in 1928. Five generations lived in the house.3

The bathroom was upgraded over the years. There's an upstairs bathroom with the old cast iron bathtub and another remodeled bathroom downstairs.

The house was donated to the Farmersville Historical Society by a descendant in 1989.

Farmersville, Texas is the place to visit if you enjoy quaint, old-fashioned towns with antiques and curiosities. Located near Highway 380 and Highway 78, the town has friendly merchants, good food, a quiet laid-back environment and the largest yarn store in Texas.

Sources:

  1. John Alexander Bain, March 15, 1823 - November 1862. Facts from Ancestry dot com
  2. Anna Hicks Bain, 1834 - 1906
  3. Collin County Texas dot Gov, Bain Honaker House


Tuesday, August 27, 2024

Cruising to Alaska in August 2024


July and August, while temperatures swelter in Texas, it's a great time for a cruise to somewhere cool.

Our trip to Alaska started with a trip from Dallas to Seattle. Flying sure isn't what it used to be. Most passengers keep their window shade down during the flight, making the cabin dark and dreary. Electronic devices seem to be more fascinating than the view from 30,000 feet, but not for me.

We spent the night at the Westin in Downtown Seattle. The Uber trip to the hotel was eye-opening. I'd heard about the "housing challenges" but wasn't prepared for the number of unhoused people lurking in doorways, walking aimlessly about and hanging around the area. It was scary enough to make us stay inside at the hotel. 


The next morning during the ride from the hotel to the pier I spotted someone on the sidewalk whose clothes were torn, exposing undergarments. He was gesturing wildly as he walked, as if under the influence.

We won't be staying downtown in Seattle in the future.

The news stand in front of the hotel


At the port, three cruise ships full of passengers were disembarking. The harbor employees did a great job offloading thousands of people at once.

Bonnie, a traffic control lady, made sure people went to the correct areas for ride shares or the waiting area to get onboard. We sat on benches near the action for over an hour as she cheerfully directed people to their proper places. 

As we moved to the entrance of the embarkation building, she came over and gave me an unexpected hug. That was nice.


We also met a drug-sniffing security dog whose tail never stopped wagging.

In line behind us was a family with three teenage boys who were so well-mannered it was amazing. We ran into the Wilsons several times while we were on board, at meals and even shopping in Ketchikan.

Food on the ship was spectacular, particularly breakfast at The Catch by Rudi where we got to know another couple sitting next to us. We enjoyed eggs cooked to order with toast and a fruit plate for my hubby.



We ate at The Catch by Rudy for one of our specialty dinners and wow! The service was amazing, the food was more than plentiful and way too much for us to finish. My Dover sole was deboned at the table with expertise by our waiter, Virgilio, with a nice visit by the MaƮtre d, Johannes who was incredibly personable and a lot of fun.


The ports of Juneau and Skagway were not easily accessible for us. Due to recent damage to the port, a tender boat ride was necessary to get ashore. With the brisk wind and splashing seas, we opted to stay on board, warm and dry. We did make if off the ship for one port, Ketchikan. With an average rainfall of 270 days per year, we were fortunate to enjoy a sunny day with mild temps in the high 60s.

Thankfully, our trip was a couple of weeks before the devastating landslide that damaged property and took lives. A sad outcome in a breathtakingly beautiful place.

Despite the fun, food and friends we enjoyed, a cold cruise would not be the top choice for our next adventure. We were raised in tropical climates and found the temps a bit too brisk for us.

Onward, to the Caribbean in October.

Logging is one of the main industries in AK.

Juneau, AK

Ice chunks in the water


Approaching the glacier






Ketchikan Alaska 2024

Overall, it was a fabulous trip and well worth the cost and the time to check another one off our bucket list.